Showing posts from September, 2013

The modern sub personality.

Q. If I ask one Dominant what they think a sub is they will give me one definition. And if I ask another Dominant, he will give me another definition. And the definitions vary so wildly that I can’t find myself reflected in them. Can you give me a better idea of what a sub is?

Q: My guy is a Marine, basically a trained killer for the Unites States, so I have to stay totally connected with him even when we fuck like wild dogs so that he doesn't choke me to death! You got any tips for me?

I am trying to compromise between breath play and asphyxiation with my dominant because he prefers the former and I the latter. I would say we're a work in progress and that I am unwisely letting my frustration get the better of me. What do you think?