A question about "Universal Rules" in relationships and Public Vs Private play.

Q: In most situations, when a sub belongs to a Dom, is she not allowed to be dominated by another Dominants? 

There are no universal constants in relationships. Some Doms let their subs play privately and publicly with others and some don't. It's all up to the people involved. That being said, I have noticed one constant and that is that very few Dominants will give over their control of their sub to another Dominant. So the sub almost always has to abide by the rules that have been established by her primary relationship. (Dominant)

For example the Dominant may allow his or her sub to be able to play with other dominants if its for work (Professional sub or adult actress) or if it doesn't involve sex. Some maybe able to have sex as long as there is no BDSM involved. ETC... The point is that any relationship is what you make it. 

Q: Do you see a difference between public and private play or is it all the same if you are in D/s relationship?

The only distinction I make is what I do when playing with people I care for and those that I don’t. The location or circumstances don’t matter. What matters is the connection you have, want or are creating with the person that you are playing with.

Orpheus Black 

{Orpheus Black is a sex educator specializing in Poly, D/s and M/s Dynamics. He is also a, professional and lifestyle Dominant, and alternative lifestyle speaker in Los Angeles. For more information on classes or speaking engagements please email him at orpheusandindigo@gmail.com}