Is there any thing that I can do to help inspire team work and camaraderie in my poly dynamic.
I feel that one of the things that would make relationships work better is if all woman had to play a team sport. Why? Because it teaches you to know your roll and play your position.
As well as it helps a person to understand that their job is to support the decisions of the captain whether they agree with them or not. The problem is if you aren't playing your position to the best of your ability we as Dominants will never know if our plan failed on its own merit or as a result of bad decision making on the behalf of a jaded sub that was only half invested.
And lets be honest, being only partially invested is enough to ruin an out come. Remember that any poly dynamic is like trying to build a pyramid from people. The subs or the bottoms (If you will) are the foundation and they support the top. But if one of the bottoms isn't caring their share of the weight then the top is surly going to fall. I think that every one knows this at heart and sometimes subs intentionally remove there support in the hopes that everything falls apart.
This is apart of the me / mine syndrome were the sub feels that their Dominant is there position and would rather destroy what they have together then make room and share with others. And that is a sad thing.
As well as it helps a person to understand that their job is to support the decisions of the captain whether they agree with them or not. The problem is if you aren't playing your position to the best of your ability we as Dominants will never know if our plan failed on its own merit or as a result of bad decision making on the behalf of a jaded sub that was only half invested.
And lets be honest, being only partially invested is enough to ruin an out come. Remember that any poly dynamic is like trying to build a pyramid from people. The subs or the bottoms (If you will) are the foundation and they support the top. But if one of the bottoms isn't caring their share of the weight then the top is surly going to fall. I think that every one knows this at heart and sometimes subs intentionally remove there support in the hopes that everything falls apart.
This is apart of the me / mine syndrome were the sub feels that their Dominant is there position and would rather destroy what they have together then make room and share with others. And that is a sad thing.